July 26, 2009
What I Think are the Good Qualities of the Best Husband
FRANCIS K GITHINJI asked:
The best husband is a husband who thinks about you but does not love you. It is almost impossible to love a person and think about that person at the same time; that is the nature of a man. Someone will say this is outrageous but it is the reality you wouldn't want to admit because it is the truth. This is not male chauvinism; a man rarely invests emotionally in a woman because to him love means something completely different. It is a fantasy, a creation of the mind, an illusion, imaginary, something that does not exist! Have you ever wondered why a man can have several wives and mistresses at the same time? You wonder how a polygamous man is able to distribute his love equally to his wives and manage them so well. From today henceforth be informed that this marvelous **** of a man does not love any of his women but he always thinks about them. That is the essence of the best husband. He does not marry a woman as a result of love for that woman, no. Marriage is a societal obligation that must be met and fulfilled.
A woman likes to feel dominated by a man. This implies that the best husband should be a man who is in control. This does not mean a man who is a control freak but the masculinity he exudes. He has taken control of his life. He takes control of his woman and family. He is a decision maker. When a wife asks “which food should I take” when you are in a restaurant and you tell her to order what pleases her, it does not augur well with her. Tell her to try particular food and assure her it is good. Tell her to try a certain dress out, decide for her what to put on. This is done in a subtle masculine way. In a polite way but at the same time in a firm manner. Let no one lie to anyone but women love male dominance.
Competition is healthy in any field, be it in business, academics, politics, job market and or even in a relationship. But the competition implied in this case is different. The best husband should have another woman as a side hassle. Do not mistake this as cheating. It is only meant to keep the wife on her toes. She might take advantage of the fact that she is the one and only one and abuse this position by doing what pleases her. Another woman puts her in check lest she forgets her obligations. The existence of this side kick of a woman should not officially be known. It should only be rumored and the best husband denies and dismisses such rumors as unfounded.
The best husband supports his family in terms of material and emotional wellbeing. He is a pillar of support and his family can count on him. He should be able to create or invoke a sense of comfort zone around his family. His presence should create a sense of security for the whole family. The best husband is a thinker. He sees opportunities where none seems to exist. He is gentle and caring.
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The best husband is a husband who thinks about you but does not love you. It is almost impossible to love a person and think about that person at the same time; that is the nature of a man. Someone will say this is outrageous but it is the reality you wouldn't want to admit because it is the truth. This is not male chauvinism; a man rarely invests emotionally in a woman because to him love means something completely different. It is a fantasy, a creation of the mind, an illusion, imaginary, something that does not exist! Have you ever wondered why a man can have several wives and mistresses at the same time? You wonder how a polygamous man is able to distribute his love equally to his wives and manage them so well. From today henceforth be informed that this marvelous **** of a man does not love any of his women but he always thinks about them. That is the essence of the best husband. He does not marry a woman as a result of love for that woman, no. Marriage is a societal obligation that must be met and fulfilled.
A woman likes to feel dominated by a man. This implies that the best husband should be a man who is in control. This does not mean a man who is a control freak but the masculinity he exudes. He has taken control of his life. He takes control of his woman and family. He is a decision maker. When a wife asks “which food should I take” when you are in a restaurant and you tell her to order what pleases her, it does not augur well with her. Tell her to try particular food and assure her it is good. Tell her to try a certain dress out, decide for her what to put on. This is done in a subtle masculine way. In a polite way but at the same time in a firm manner. Let no one lie to anyone but women love male dominance.
Competition is healthy in any field, be it in business, academics, politics, job market and or even in a relationship. But the competition implied in this case is different. The best husband should have another woman as a side hassle. Do not mistake this as cheating. It is only meant to keep the wife on her toes. She might take advantage of the fact that she is the one and only one and abuse this position by doing what pleases her. Another woman puts her in check lest she forgets her obligations. The existence of this side kick of a woman should not officially be known. It should only be rumored and the best husband denies and dismisses such rumors as unfounded.
The best husband supports his family in terms of material and emotional wellbeing. He is a pillar of support and his family can count on him. He should be able to create or invoke a sense of comfort zone around his family. His presence should create a sense of security for the whole family. The best husband is a thinker. He sees opportunities where none seems to exist. He is gentle and caring.
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